Signs that anxiety, rather than a feeding problem itself, may be the main issue:
- Dread or panic before or during feeds, even when feeding is progressing normally
- Catastrophic thoughts about supply, growth, or harm, that persist despite reassurance from a health professional
- Body tension that makes let-down or settling harder
- Constant checking: weighing, timing feeds, or comparing to milestones obsessively
- Shame, comparison, or a sense of failure that is out of proportion to the actual feeding situation
- Avoiding feeding in front of others, or avoiding leaving the baby with anyone else
If you have concerns about supply, latch, pain, or the baby's weight gain, contact the ABA Helpline, your GP, midwife, or a lactation consultant first. These are medical and technique questions that sit outside hypnotherapy.
It can help to separate two different questions: "is there a feeding problem?", a medical or technique question for the ABA, your GP, midwife, or a lactation consultant, and "am I feeling panic, dread, or catastrophic thinking about feeding, even when it is going fine?", an anxiety question, which is what hypnotherapy addresses. Many parents are dealing with both at once, and that is completely normal; treating them separately, with the right professional for each, tends to work best.